Friday, June 19, 2009

and he asked me?????? Part 1

Yesterday after work TY dropped me off at home as usual....

we started discussing in the car about what happened during d day, as usual we digressed into other stuff and ended up discussing about his masters in September.... thats an underlying issue between us, we are constantly thinking about it every step of the way... how very soon we are going to be apart...

So as at yesterday he had gotten admission letters from Warwick and Durham but he was still waiting on imperial which is his preferred school..he is a really lucky chap and i just wish i had this type of opportunity....

Along the way, we started discussing about relationship and quarrels and being in it for the right reason if not u wouldn't be able to shelter the storm and he looked at me and asked me if he had disappointed me during our relationship...........

I looked up at him and said yes nobody is perfect of cos u've disappointed me and he proceeded to ask me how????
i was thinking "how can he ask me how ,doesn't he know all he has done?" but instead i looked at him smiled and asked back..have i disappointed u ?? he was like yes that time u collected money from that guy and a few times......
and he was like "i have answered your turn" so i told him " a few times"
and he was like baby just say it...and i told him u don't need me to tell u all u've done.. u know them there is no need bringing up sour issues that will just spoil the mood..and he kept quiet..i knew he would because u see in this 5years i have dated this boy i have been through the best and the worst of times and he knows...........

forgive the stop.....but i have decide to detail just how many times this boy has disappointed me and is still disappointing me.. and exactly how many times i know i have disappointed him.. and let u be the judge if i haven't tried in this life..
and then u will agree that u have to be in a relationship for the right reason or u cant weather the STORM

13 comments:

yinkuslolo said...

for real! 5yrs is a very long time. u would def weather the storm

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leggy said...

wow...lol...5 years?and u dnt feel trappedor anything..i envy u oh!!!

Tay-mee said...

wow, after 5 years of being together I reckon you would be able to weather the storm..but wat do I know..lol

bumight said...

after 5 years plus, i'd bet there'll have been disappointments along the way, but uve weathered them.

Scribbles said...

5 yrs WOW,,dat is definitely long..Don't be afraid to tell him how he disappointed u but It could only bring back buried pain..just make the most of the time u guys have together

BSNC said...

5 good years, thats something. The storm will be scared to come close to you guyz sef..

SouLBoutiQue said...

I think you can weather the storm, five years is long sha, but to me communication and being open make any relationship last and worth the storms. but never be afraid to tell someone when they have wronged you!
Ag

*Dith* said...

My first and only real relationship was long distance and my goodness, it was hell on earth. When he visited, things were awesome but other than that, One drama after d other, so no more long distance relationships (LDRs) for me. I wish u guys d best tho.

sweetness said...

5 YEARS?
sorry i was shouting

i wish u guys the best dear

Lady X said...

Five years??? Wow! I think you might be in love with him. Isn't that how you know you love someone? When you still accept them despite their faults?

rethots said...

...you know, the best of relationships ain't the ones without hick-ups; but, those even with the dissappointments, we look at the person and one's heart is filled with love 'cos one (pirposely) chose to walk the journey with him(or her).

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