Monday, June 22, 2009

and he asked me?????? Part 2

I know i am supposed to be writing about all the bad stuffs that have happened in my relationship but during d weekend and after reading some of your posts and a few comments on this posts i realized that i really am a lucky girl......, so i am going to stop dwelling on the hurt and pain and fix my eyes on the love and happiness i have felt and i am still feeling this past five years........

there really is no need to keep bringing out the hurt when there is so much joy and laughter to overshadow it......
No one is perfect and even if i believe that i haven't wronged him as much as he has to em.. i still know that i Love him cos in d midst of all he as done he still appreciates me...... and he still tries everyday to make up for everything....

When i say i have dated this guy for five years i mean 5yrs non stop.. we haven't had any breaks and i don't think i will ever need any....... even thru all d hurt we stayed together.. and i have to hand it to him that in a while things have been really rosy.. but its just so hard to let go of all the hurt cos when u remember u be like "hope it doesn't happen again"
don't go try to start thinking about what he could have possibly done cos i aint telling and no he didn't cheat.....lol

he really is a wonderful guy and he adores me ........ he is respectful, responsible, sexy as hell.. generous.. extremely wonderful to my friends and he is 100% into me..

TY and i lived together in school and now that we are thru with school and are back home its kinda hard not seeing each other 24-7, so we make do with seeing everyday after work and all day Saturday and even Sunday mornings we go gyming together.....
i totally love him and now i am going to focus on that....


in totally unrelated news
1) our bday i coming up July 24th (yes we are born on d same day)....
and i have been cracking my head about what to get him cos he is a boy that has everything.. so its really a challenge anytime we have to exchange gifts...w e decided to make this bday an open one so he gets to Say what he wants and i tell him what i want....(any ideas on what i should ask for)........

2) i am going for NYSC camp on July 14th so i might be missing for about 3weeks.. just letting u know now.... so that means that our bday will eb in camp..i just pray that we are posted to the same place....(help me pray oh)

3) one of my darling friends bday is on Saturday and TY took me shopping for something to wear during d weekend.. i got this darling dress... and i promise to post a pix of how i looked after d party.....


have a fun filled....love filled week

xoxo

14 comments:

doll said...

Came to check out the blog of my twin sis. LOL. People always say I remind them of them…Bumight and a couple of bloggers and now you..
Anyways happy Bday in advance and as per the camp thing…maybe a lil separation will do you good seeing that you have been together for this long…

Lady X said...

I'm not first...:(
Happy Birthday in advance girl!How cool is it that you guys are born on the same day!??
It's always hard to figure out what to give guys on their birthdays...:(
Good luck with that!

leggy said...

i love how u decided to focus on the good instead of the bad,,and i really envy you.have fun at the camp!!

Original Mgbeke said...

No one is perfect my sister, as long as his positives outweigh his negatives (and it seems like it does) then continue to love and appreciate him. You have a good man. :-)

Naija Storyteller said...

you lived together in school? dang girl, but you gys are practically an old married couple and even those have their ups and downs.

yinkuslolo said...

una don tey for this love business. all the best girl

Tay-mee said...

Chei! birthday at NYSC camp..Have fun oh. Ask him for something expensive..lol I kid. You know what you like now.

BBB said...

@doll... ah plz oh dont want to spend my bday alone...a nd he is traveling soon there will be separation then.. i need him close

@Lady X..... thanks..weird fact of my life..he is going to have to make d decision himself

@Leggy...fun at camp..dont think so i have heard its really stressful

@Original Mgbeke....he really is good man..thanks

@Naija Storyteller..welcome to my blog..that used to be a joke amongst my friends when we were in school they used to call me wife

@yinkuslolo... thanks..

@Tay-mee...i know bday at camp..really scary

Nice Anon said...

you have the same birthday? Awww my grandpa and grandma had the same birthday with one year apart. Gosh he loved her loads!

Hold on to what you have and keep working on it each day you hear

Lolia said...

Isn't focusing on the good bits so much nicer?

Awwwww @ you being born on the same day :)

And wow @ five years, that's actually a really long time...I gotta hand it to you...You've tried oh...

In case you're not here, happy birthday in advance but it's like a month or so away so I'm sure you'll be back before then.

xxx

tommeh said...

Goodluck!

*Diane* said...

i think its soo cute that you guys have the same birthday. how rare is that!

=♥...IamShhh...♥= said...

It's my first time here!!!
Read your comment on Leggy's blog.

Enjoy camp! & just like every other person. I think it's cool you have the same birthday :)

Night Watcher said...

Awesome blog.
First time here.
Realy enjoyed it.
Have fun @ camp.

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