So i spoke to a friend of mine yesterday about how the rapid rise in men that take women for granted was beginning to piss me off and his response was that i should start looking behind at the men chasing me and forget the ones in front of me.
Apparently according to him, Men are getting extinct and right now we have a ratio of about 6 females to 1 male *unvalidated fact*, hence you do not have to like a guy, just find a guy that really likes you and try to like him back, his theory lays with the fact that the guy that you probably really like or love maybe is being chased by lots of other women, YES i said chased, apparently we have become the hunters in today's society.
Men on the other hand have lots of women after them, there are four basic features that men have that turn them to prey in our eyes
Having all four will place a guy way above your reach, because most girls would be after him too and hence the attention you are giving him is just one out of many.
Having three outta four is also an issue a dude that is handsome has money and is funny, or has money is funny and an intellectual , or is handsome, funny and an intellectual is a really dangerous combo most guys with those end up either treating girls like crap knowingly or unknowingly because no matter who gets hurt and leaves there are 5 more girls still there, remember the 6:1 stat?
So according to my friend women should stop chasing the guys ahead of us and look at those behind us, you know the ones with just one or two of the above mentioned characteristics and take it from there, maybe with you there he would develop the third or fourth, NOTE here that a guy that is worwor will be worwor no matter what you do, lol, but i guess his style could change and then make him more attractive after all seal is married to heidi *cough*
So apparently women out there who are showing love to a particular guy thinking that it will set them off from other girls should remember that you have 5 other women doing the exact same thing to them. The things you have seen in the guy that's making you go gaga for him have also been seen by the other 5 women and so you are in constant competition with them.
Ladies here is my advice , errr forget the guys ahead of you that are filled with shakara and manage that one behind you that has been pursuing since forever *cough* i don talk my own.
Leave the guys ahead for me :p
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