Let me break this down:
- they check up on you all the time
- quick to offer a bbm hug or a hug in person when they are available
-they never forget your birthday
-they laugh at all your jokes
-in touch with their feminine side
-Crack too many jokes, to the point of irritation
-they sometimes confuse their relationship with you as more than what it actually is
-they smother you with attention ( smother being the key word)
-apologize at every single turn
-they want to know whats going on at every point in your life
-still they are just your friends (just and friends being the key word)
Now, a guy having some of these characteristics will be a winner, but when you find a guy that possesses every single one of these, he just becomes un-dateable, friendship zone material.
I feel that a man should act like a man, i love a man that's sensitive and tries his best to show he cares, but when a guy starts behaving like i would behave, it just leaves a strong distaste in my mouth.
I feel a guy should be strong and manly, take charge and not be too willing to please, should be charming and not overly larger than life,
I've met a lot of nice guys in my life, i am not one of those girls that is attracted to "bad boys", i just dont want a guy that obviously cannot handle me, i dont want to date someone that cant hold his own in an argument, cannot tell me when i'm wrong and correct me, someone that will willingly say sorry even when i am clearly wrong just because he is "too" in love......
Yup!!! if having all this classifies you as a "NICE' guy, then honey, you will definitely carry LAST!