Let me break this down:
- they check up on you all the time
- quick to offer a bbm hug or a hug in person when they are available
-they never forget your birthday
-they laugh at all your jokes
-extremely cheesy
-in touch with their feminine side
-Crack too many jokes, to the point of irritation
-they sometimes confuse their relationship with you as more than what it actually is
-they smother you with attention ( smother being the key word)
-apologize at every single turn
-they want to know whats going on at every point in your life
-still they are just your friends (just and friends being the key word)
Now, a guy having some of these characteristics will be a winner, but when you find a guy that possesses every single one of these, he just becomes un-dateable, friendship zone material.
I feel that a man should act like a man, i love a man that's sensitive and tries his best to show he cares, but when a guy starts behaving like i would behave, it just leaves a strong distaste in my mouth.
I feel a guy should be strong and manly, take charge and not be too willing to please, should be charming and not overly larger than life,
I've met a lot of nice guys in my life, i am not one of those girls that is attracted to "bad boys", i just dont want a guy that obviously cannot handle me, i dont want to date someone that cant hold his own in an argument, cannot tell me when i'm wrong and correct me, someone that will willingly say sorry even when i am clearly wrong just because he is "too" in love......
Yup!!! if having all this classifies you as a "NICE' guy, then honey, you will definitely carry LAST!
16 comments:
I think being a nice guy and being a weak guy are two different things. I want a nice guy, they don't carry last in my book.
Yelz...I totally feel you!
Guys like that turn me off...but like Sting said..they're not necessarily "nice" guys...they're weak/push-overs...
I want a nice guy ooo...just not a slow one
the top half of the list is a nice guy, the bottom half is a lame @$$ lol. Nice guys never finish last unless they are out there trying to chase fat booties in mini skirts and wondering why it doesn't work out. IJS
My thots exactly.
U have joined #teamDisqus whoop whoop!
How do u do that? Abeg someone teach me.
I want that type of guy too....lol...I recently met thattype of guy...*blush*#hint.
Lol dis wan u r always meeting sha! I thot we were still on d topic of ur "prince"? Sent via BlackBerry from T-Mobile
thanks.
true, i agree, i guess the guy i described is a weak guy
Aha!!!!Slow thats the right adjective
just follow what she said to the T
These kind of 'nice guys' are risky o. They let you trip over without ever mentioning their interest. Not my type at all
Well said! lol @ ilola's comment.
With guys like these, you'll be courting mummy's boy so much that you'll be the one wearing the trouser!
Honestly, I've been at both ends of the spectrum: Uber Nice guy and then Mr. Bad Boy. A middle ground works just fine. :)
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